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Domtops in fics are always written to have such uncomplicated and healthy relationships to their sexualities and for my mental health I need us to collectively start giving them complexes about being some kind of monstrous predatory freak of nature instead.
Make that guy have a panic attack b/c someone in his daydream told him to stop and he kept going anyway.
ETA: New and improved! Sad Wet Dog of a top is thinking about how he wants to hurt you but doesn't want to hurt you and it's slowly and Steadily making him Lose His Whole Fucking Mind.
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Date: 10/5/25 12:04 (UTC)Highkey I think it's b/c it's already acceptable for men to desire a kind of control over other men's bodies so they don't necessarily recognise it when that occurs as a homoerotic impulse. A lot of people treat penetration as inherently masculine so wanting to top another guy is considered somehow "less gay". A hole is a hole and all that.