*noises of mindblowing revelations about NTs*
Thursday, 27 June 2019 19:55![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
yvannairieSo, like, okay
neurotypicals hate text-based communication because tone is much harder for them to convey in writing, and it's much easier to misunderstand one another that way
and I've had people accuse me of "reading too much" into what they write because of this kind of miscommunication of tone
but I still vastly prefer communication over text, because people's exact words will always be available for me to ask clarification on (and learning how to ask clarification in a non-hostile, non-accusatory way is one of the things I am desperate to learn because it would make my life so much easier)
while I absolutely hate trying to talk things out with people because most people communicate so much with tone and posture, which I cannot parse at all, unless I'm talking to someone who's as much of a chatterbox as I am
............ can it really be that simple?
neurotypicals hate text-based communication because tone is much harder for them to convey in writing, and it's much easier to misunderstand one another that way
and I've had people accuse me of "reading too much" into what they write because of this kind of miscommunication of tone
but I still vastly prefer communication over text, because people's exact words will always be available for me to ask clarification on (and learning how to ask clarification in a non-hostile, non-accusatory way is one of the things I am desperate to learn because it would make my life so much easier)
while I absolutely hate trying to talk things out with people because most people communicate so much with tone and posture, which I cannot parse at all, unless I'm talking to someone who's as much of a chatterbox as I am
............ can it really be that simple?
