BEEN A WHILE SINCE I HATED A NEOLOGISM THIS MUCH

[yvannairie]

Joyless Old Van Yells At Cloud:

Can we please go back to "stan" and stop using "simp" b/c that word literally feels like nails on a chalkboard.

It feels like having my mouth stuffed with chalk.

I hate it. Make it stop

Comments

[yvannairie]

I've... mellowed out on language games somewhat after reading more about the politics of language in general still can't stand memes tho and it feels like this might just be an act of reclaiming -- stan does indeed come from stalker fan, the origins are exactly as unflattering as they seem, but I find the way people have reclaimed it to use in the context of SpIns and hyperfixations quite validating. An intense, single-minded obsession isn't bad if you're just doing it by yourself.

Simp, though?? What is there to reclaim?? What is there to go "yeah, so? You say that like it's a bad thing?" at? It just feels like painting a happy face on self-deprecation.

[cassini]

[haha i must have been in preview checking my own spelling while brin_bellway was posting. we landed on the same words ]

[i dont see a lot of dialogue where stan is used with the context of SpIns and hyperfixations, and past that point its a full game of 'im not gonna police the neurodivergent sharing their experiences and expressions', i guess. 'stan' is just definitely not a term i could ever use to describe myself or my experiences - 'doing it by yourself' runs totally counter to 'stalking' to me and thatll be a disconnect i personally wont get over any time soon, but for others? back to the 'im not your language police' line ]

[yvannairie]

admittedly I don't interact with fandoms for real people, so I mostly see it in the form of "[completely fake person] stan". It's prolly less pleasant in IRL contexts