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It sucks when there's something you can't really bring up around someone b/c it concerns a mutual friend (and that, when it was brought up, was dealt as "I don't want to talk and I don't want you to talk about it") because it's a good breeding ground for misunderstandings, having things you can't ask for clarification on.

It puts a cap on how intimate and trusting a relationship can be, and how effective the communication can become.

It doesn't... Bother me? The way I know someone lying about something I considered settled does, but it bum me out b/c "IDK" is a really unsatisfying place to leave any relationship.

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