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yvannairieRegardless of whether I "should" or "should not" be writing about the few specific forms of trauma I keep coming back to write about, I'm still prolly gonna keep writing about them because that's a less invasive way for me to deal with... the "consequences", for a lack of a better word.
I don't know how people experience these things, I have zero interest in talking about this with someone for whom it's a lived experience b/c my brain does not react well to the complexities of "lived experience", but I do want to know about the experience and so reading and writing and researching, even if those things are deemed "inappropriate"/"appropriative" for me to do, are the best way to go about it.
Therapy for abusers is also a thing. If it's therapeutic for me to do this and it doesn't harm anyone else, then I really don't care if it's an inappropriate way for me to deal with my own issues.
I don't know how people experience these things, I have zero interest in talking about this with someone for whom it's a lived experience b/c my brain does not react well to the complexities of "lived experience", but I do want to know about the experience and so reading and writing and researching, even if those things are deemed "inappropriate"/"appropriative" for me to do, are the best way to go about it.
Therapy for abusers is also a thing. If it's therapeutic for me to do this and it doesn't harm anyone else, then I really don't care if it's an inappropriate way for me to deal with my own issues.
