Bad premonitions

[yvannairie]

I still haven't worked out exactly when it's appropriate to ask people "are you okay" whenever I get a sense that something might not be okay without coming across like I'm either following their every move or simply overly cautious in general.

Comments

[cassini]

[same. being overly cautious is simpler to apologise for, i find, so i go with that when ive shoved my boot in it ]

[yvannairie]

that does sound sensible, but my history of paranoia and overreaction doesn't let me consider it. Either I need to Mobilise Now or it's none of my problem, no middle ground ;__;)

[cassini]

[ah, the complicated human brain and it's Fun :( i am slightly concerned that i am overstepping a bit, but at that risk my advice would still stand though i may be Just Wrong ^^; ]

[yvannairie]

It was a reasonable inference :) you weren't overstepping and it really is good advice if it weren't for my Dumbass Circumstances