I know. That's why this post has an "uncharitable" tag -- because that post wouldn't exist if it didn't speak to a common anxiety. Hell, I know personally that it speaks to a common anxiety.
But this is me venting about how much vagueposts like that, posts not explicitly aimed at anyone but implicitly expected to adress a common grievance with certain patterns of beiavour, give me anxiety because now every time it starts to depress or piss me off that people are leaving me hanging, it turns into guilt because almost invariably I've seen them vague about how hard it is to keep up conversations because of anxiety. Seeing any post where the vague implication is "and therefore you shouldn't be mad about this thing" is bad for my OCD, and I need somewhere to be able to express those feelings.
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Date: 27/11/19 14:19 (UTC)But this is me venting about how much vagueposts like that, posts not explicitly aimed at anyone but implicitly expected to adress a common grievance with certain patterns of beiavour, give me anxiety because now every time it starts to depress or piss me off that people are leaving me hanging, it turns into guilt because almost invariably I've seen them vague about how hard it is to keep up conversations because of anxiety. Seeing any post where the vague implication is "and therefore you shouldn't be mad about this thing" is bad for my OCD, and I need somewhere to be able to express those feelings.