Yeah. I get it on one hand because I’ve got one stalker who periodically harasses me and I’m so cautious about what spaces I join. Not because he’s there but because his allies might be.

On the other hand, I don’t think an atmosphere of distrust really helps to combat antis either. The worst culprits do tend to be known at least but as you’ve said they have wiped evidence. But fear means folks can’t band together to call bullshit when they target someone—I’d rather be trusting sometimes and know I’ve got folks at my back to defend me.

Idk personally unless it’s someone I directly know is an anti I’ll be cool with em.

(It’s late at night so idk how coherent I am rn sorry.)