It is so hard, though!! Commenting is a huge part of my general socialisation -- like, considering how easy it is to get burnt out on texting and Discord, it feels like the least disruptive way to get that Good Engagement with people, and it's also something I can do with relative strangers.

But then it's kind of like... commenting is also writing to a degree, you want to give something back by leaving good comments, but then the not-having-words starts to extend to it too.